Pro-Shipper's Haven
We are a team and a Discord Community dedicated to a single purpose: to give all pro-shippers and pro-kinksters a safe place in which to discuss their interests, share their content, and meet new people. Adults [18+] are allowed to join and be a part of this great community. The only people we shun are bigots, bullies, and antis.
Details
Things We are Against:
Cringe CultureShaming people for their fictional interestsShaming people for things they haven’t actually doneTreating all minors like harmless victims and all adults like vicious predatorsDenying people’s identities
Things We Support:
Freedom of expressionFreedom in fictionTreating everyone as an individual capable of both good and badAllowing people to discover themselves on their own time in their own way
Additional Information
We are a US-based server. This means we follow US Federal laws. Individual state laws are up to the poster to keep in mind, if relevant to their interests. This also goes for the laws of other countries.Being a Discord server, we also follow Discord’s TOS. Things breaking the rules of said TOS will be punted from the server.Under no circumstances are minors allowed in the server. If you are interested in The Haven, you will have to wait until you turn 18 to join.We don’t tolerate mocking, belittling, being passive-aggressive, or outright aggressive to any other member of the server. If you can’t handle a disagreement civilly, you’re out.Being an ex-anti is not a punishable offense. If you are now, currently, a pro-shipper/pro-kinkster/anti-anti, you are welcome in our community. If anything we value your insight into the world of antis!Various kinks/heavy topics/potentially triggering subjects are separated into different channels, which you are more than welcome to mute. We also keep a server-only list of squicks or triggers and add to it at user request, so we can try to warn for or avoid such topics in the presence of people bothered by them. It is up to you to curate your own experience and leave discussions if they bother you, but we, as a community, will do our best to accommodate you.We encourage members to message the staff privately if they are being overwhelmed, harassed, made uncomfortable, or intentionally upset. We will personally handle these matters to the best of our ability.
About
We are a small private community, and as such review applications on a one-by-one, case by case basis. Often we review social media provided, and current members are able to recommend new applicants. If you are interested in joining us, please reach out to us on Twitter, Tumblr, or Dreamwidth. One of our staff members will assist you from there. You may also contact us via email if you need to talk to staff or don't have access to our other sites.
PLEASE NOTE! The Haven is:
♦ Pro Fujoshi and Fudanshi
♦ Pro “people enjoying literally anything they want to in fiction, including things you may find personally distasteful”.
♦ Ace inclusionist - asexuals belong in the LGBTQIA+ Community.
♦ We support exploring and affirming your identity - your labels, pronouns, and experiences are valid, and we will do our best to respect them and help others do the same.
♦ YKINMKATOK - Your Kink Is Not My Kink, And That's Okay!
Should we find evidence that you are against any of these things, chances are slim that we will feel comfortable having you in the server!
Contact
If you'd like to apply to join our community, you can reach us on the various platforms below. You can also shoot us an email if you want to just have a chat with staff before committing to an application, or have any questions to ask us!
Our application process involves a questionairre, which the staff will review as a group. Staff reserves the right to decline your application after review with or without disclosing our reasoning.